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#OOMorningMotivation: Be Open to it Being Way Better Than You Imagined!

  • Published on: 09 October, 2015
  • Last update: 10 August, 2017

12142279_1656841907863069_1728282435_nI often think about the language we use in our heads regarding our fears vs. our dreams.

Worry can word itself in such definitive speech: “Oh no, my boss is going to yell at me!” or, “He/she won’t like me.”

These are predictive, absolute statements. And yet when we ask for the things we want, we do just that… we ask. We say, “I hope I get the job,” or “Please let me pass this exam!” We feel afraid to say “I will get this job” because duh – what if it doesn’t happen? We wouldn’t want to seem cocky or get our hopes up and feel silly if we’re let down.

If this is true, then why are we so unafraid to state our fears with this final language? What if our fears don’t come true – we don’t feel silly then, right? Why are we afraid to be wrong when it comes to success, but we’re so ready to be right when it comes to failure? Why do we exude the vibration of already owning some definitive worrisome outcome, yet we only ask/hope for the positive as a mere possibility?

Why are we more comfortable with the safety of NOT getting what we want?

I challenge you to change your language. We have to actively decide that we want greatness and change the way we speak to ourselves about the ownership of our outcomes.

Asking is matching the opposite vibration of what you want, because you’re coming from a place of not having. Use the language of the solution. Believe you already have it. It’s yours. Believe it can be better than you ever imagined. Say “I WILL GET THIS JOB” because even if you don’t, at least you didn’t set yourself up for failure before you had a chance.


Most of all, feel the GRATITUDE as if you already have it… and life will continue to give you things to be grateful for.Screen Shot 2015-10-05 at 5.40.55 PM

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Thank you so much for the positive post. I really needed this today. Btw, I admire your courage to learn & seek for a better healthy life. Reading about your journey not only inspired me to be healthier but it opened my eyes about a few health issues I’ve had in the past. Just not too long ago this year I had pityriasis rosea, a skin rash that started on my chest & eventually spread through out my whole body. At one point it was even on my scalp, face & feet, literally everywhere. It was hell, I had it for about 3 months and although it didn’t cause severe pain I had to deal with constant itchiness & my skin was so dry it would flake off. My clothes, chairs, the floor of my room was dirty with the shedding of my skin. It caused me a lot of stress & the itchiness would drive me crazy, especially at night. But the main reason I’m telling you this is because what angered me the most was that no doctor could tell me what caused it. I decided to do my own research & saw a few articles that suggested ANTIBIOTICS could be a cause. Thats when it all made sense to me. At the beginning of the year I had started a new job that was very stressful & as a temp I really couldn’t miss any days. Because of the stress I kept getting sick & every time I did I took antibiotics to kill it right away so I wouldn’t miss work. I did it more times than I care to admit & when I brought this up with my drs they all rejected the idea that Antibiotics could have caused it.They wouldn’t even listen to me. It made me angry that they wouldn’t even consider it. Now I’m trying to live a more healthy life & you have been so much help. I’ve had other health issues that now I’m starting to do my own research on instead of just relying on meds. Thank you!


This was such a great article Olivia! It definitely had me reevaluate my self-talk. And I am definitely going to challenge myself to change my language. Thanks again for sharing your greatness!

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